Someone told me that in order to move forward you need to look back. You know, tie those loose ends. Make peace with your devil or something that sounds like that... Doesn’t matter but I'm doing it.
First I cleaned the house, cleaned my room, threw stuffs I don't really need but thought I would someday, went on a holiday last November (until now actually..) Started writing what I want to do, start planning my life. Started getting closures from my exes..Trust me it's necessary.
My first boyfriend, my real first, the one I'm in love with, we had a great time though we had serious language barrier. But we had to part because we were y0ung I was only 19, he was going abroad to study, and we didn't know where we are going. I cried a lot. Scared I'll never see him again. Years after, he messaged me. He told me he loved me and always will. Now he’s got a girlfriend, the 2nd one after me, (yes I’m the first and proud of it), He is finishing from College soon. He even invited me to come to his graduation. Only proves that lovers can also be friends after, it may take time but it’s possible. Recently, while we were having a talk, I happen to be frustrated, about needing closure from a recent squeeze. And since I couldn't get any answers from the current one I vented all my questions to him. Finally I heard him say sorry, he explained himself. He told me that he was happy when he was with me and I can always count on him whenever I need someone. I cried once again but right after I feel better. I loved him more but I know I no longer want to be with him. I respected him. It took me 5 years to get that. But I am happy.
Now my new break-up; The only guy I ever introduced to my family and stayed in my house, the guy who took me out of my misery, the guy who was almost perfect, the guy who makes me feel safe but feel like taking care of. That guy just broke my heart but believe it or not I felt happy and sad. Happy for everything we had sad because…because life isn’t perfect. I am forever thankful because I had him even for a short period of time. The day I met him was the day I looked at the world the brightest. He will always be in my heart and never be forgotten. I got my closure. Thank you! :)
First I cleaned the house, cleaned my room, threw stuffs I don't really need but thought I would someday, went on a holiday last November (until now actually..) Started writing what I want to do, start planning my life. Started getting closures from my exes..Trust me it's necessary.
My first boyfriend, my real first, the one I'm in love with, we had a great time though we had serious language barrier. But we had to part because we were y0ung I was only 19, he was going abroad to study, and we didn't know where we are going. I cried a lot. Scared I'll never see him again. Years after, he messaged me. He told me he loved me and always will. Now he’s got a girlfriend, the 2nd one after me, (yes I’m the first and proud of it), He is finishing from College soon. He even invited me to come to his graduation. Only proves that lovers can also be friends after, it may take time but it’s possible. Recently, while we were having a talk, I happen to be frustrated, about needing closure from a recent squeeze. And since I couldn't get any answers from the current one I vented all my questions to him. Finally I heard him say sorry, he explained himself. He told me that he was happy when he was with me and I can always count on him whenever I need someone. I cried once again but right after I feel better. I loved him more but I know I no longer want to be with him. I respected him. It took me 5 years to get that. But I am happy.
Now my new break-up; The only guy I ever introduced to my family and stayed in my house, the guy who took me out of my misery, the guy who was almost perfect, the guy who makes me feel safe but feel like taking care of. That guy just broke my heart but believe it or not I felt happy and sad. Happy for everything we had sad because…because life isn’t perfect. I am forever thankful because I had him even for a short period of time. The day I met him was the day I looked at the world the brightest. He will always be in my heart and never be forgotten. I got my closure. Thank you! :)
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